Angry Marriage

I have been in recovery for a year and a half for my anger issues, and keep relapsing. My marriage has suffered again and again and I don't think it will make it this time. Please pray for strength for my husband and I to end this peacefully and without any more damage than we have already done to each other. I know God values marriage, I just don't think this one can be fixed. Pray for our grown children too, that they will know that marriage can be a good thing even though we have not set a good example for them.