Grieving Mother

August 30, 2011 the Lord took my son home at the age of 21. It has been so hard to accept. Why would God take home such a loving, courageous, giving, heartwarming child away from his loving mother, father, sister and brother. I am not asking for healing for me because right now I think, no I know I am still in denial. But what I am asking for are the prayers for me to have the right words to say to help comfort my daughter and son. I know and feel the grace of God for me and my family but I struggle with seeing the pain in my children. Lord, please give me the right comforting words for my husband as well.
Thank you for your prayers