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Strength to survive infidelity

The man of my dreams strayed and I have whole heartedly forgiven him, but it still hurts. I love and accept him unconditionally and I ask that you pray that he understands exactly what that means for both of us. I find strength in my prayers yet the tears still come.

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Standing in prayer with you..

Standing in prayer with you.. as one who did the same to my own spouse years ago with another.. as Hosea experienced also. For me..It changed my life to know that someone would be steady as a rock for me.. that I was worth that.. not running away. Only GOD could help him do that. I won't tell you that our marriage is perfect or has not had 'other' issues unrelated since. But I will tell you that in that one incident.. I knew GOD's love better. I will pray that your husband will know God's love more through your pain filled sacrifice and I will pray that God will heal your heart and give you the peace, grace and strength you need to do as HE leads you forward. Follow the LORD's leading whatever that may be. Hugging you~~!


Thank you for your prayers.

Thank you for your prayers. I never knew what unconditional love was until I met him. I see through the pain, because I know there is so much joy on the other side. I think more than everything, I don't necessary want him to feel my pain, just to understand it. Bless you for your kind words.


I could of wrote this myself.

I could of wrote this myself. I have been through this exact same situation. Time does heal but search your heart if this is truly the person you love. When time passes we can see so much clearer. God bless you and keep praying.


First off id like to say im

First off id like to say im very sorry your man strayed. Im a man i have never strayed but my first wife did :( i know what it takes to forgive, Sweetie if you are still crying because it hurts you have not given it to GOD you may feel like you have forgiven him but deep down inside you haven't totally surrendered it. I encourage you to take that leap and trust god. Its very difficult i been there im a man but im a sensitive man. I found some great info in a book called Love and Respect you should check it out. also if you go to have you and your husband do it ut will show you what is right about you and will open your eyes to whats me i did it with my current fiance.....we were all set to be married last march but the train jumped the tracks, she started actin irrational and getting crazy, so here it is dec and still not married. i thought she was just being selfish and she was fishing me for compliments and always acting insecure and i couldnt figure it out, but after the flag page i discovered that her number one motivater in life was encouragement...i was not lifting her up like i should have been and i see now how it was me not giving her what she needs to be herself, and she was reacting in a negative way. guess what now i always text her sweet things and tell her as well and she is like a different woman... you may say all women need that but in her case its the number one motivator for her.... flagpage is 15$ each but very valuble tool, and Mark Gingor is a pastor in Wisconsin and he has a dvd series called Laugh Your Way to a better marriage,on ebay for 34$ worth every penny. so thats my encouragment....Give it to God....if you really love this man show him respect even tho he trampled your love, and you will see him treating you with love. its in the bible as you will see..Ephesians 5:33 it says each one of you must love his wife as he loves himself and the wife must respect her husband. Hard to do but lean on God he will give you the strength.

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